Bye wrote:

some people say that,

people lie just because of their kind heart.
people have to lie because of difficult to say "no".
that's why "lie" is necessary thing in the world...
lie can make thing more polite than saying "no" word.
without lie, it might the same as a soup without salt...

how many people agree with this...

give me ur opinions or otherwise, a liar will get more and more chance to lie...

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Vincent Toe Toe wrote:

i don't agree with u.....lie relieves pain at the moment u lied......but it will cause much more pain after he/she know that was a lie.
brave man don't lie.
honest man don't lie.
only ladies and gentlemen lie.........their money and fame covered their awfull lies........

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Bye wrote:

thz toe toe yaw,

that's really great idea...

but how about if the situation is coming for lie, for example, someone is asking for help or asking for going with them somewhere or do something , somehow, and the other one don't really want to go... then, they have to lie to be polite ( i m not free, or i m sick or i have something to finish or etc...)...

or even if in the couple, if someone want to stop their relationship, they always say something that's other side fault or their fault which can be about being not good enough or they r not ready or something like that...etc...just because of they don't want to hurt other side heart directly and also to be polite again...

ha.ha...

that's why i think "lie" is still the necessary thing in the world...just because of difficult to say "no" in our culture...and to be polite...

thz for ur opinions... or give me more ur debate...

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Grunch wrote:

Dear bye,

How are you? I hope you are well. I am Nay Min. I read your message and I felt that we have some same point of views to see the world. So I think I can discuss with you in some situation. Shall we? I read that you posted in chit chat, about "Lie". That is interesting topic. In the world almost everybody lie. Some say "White lies", some say " Black Lies". Yes, you say the lie that couldn't harm the other and yourself then that lies can make the other and yourself both happy and could be gotten profit, that white lie is good. But how many people can do that in each and every situation? Not much! So lies will be here. White or black? From my point of view, the most important is even if you lie the other, just accept yourself that you are liar and please dont lie yourself. In the life, the man who doesnt know about himself cant be worse than other. This is what I think. So if you have any suggestion to add and critize my opinion, you are highly welcome....


With genuine love...



Nay Min

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Bye wrote:

Dear Grunch or Nay Min or Dreamer,

Thanks for ur warmth welcome for discussing with ya even if u might mean on just some situation. Of course, why shouldn’t we discuss. I think that’s what all friends here are waiting and asking for and that might be really open minded and kind of u to come discuss with me coz some of my idea goes on childish way.

And thz again for ur encouragement and warmth comment.

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